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There is some real dross on the Internet, but sometimes one encounters a throat-catchingly poignant glimpse into another’s private grief.
In one of my first snaps for Thurso Daily Photo, I displayed the graves, in Thurso Cemetery, of two of the 40 merchant seaman and one Royal Navy seaman who perished in the largest single non-hostile loss of life of the Merchant Navy during the Second World War. The tramp steamer, the SS Ashbury had gone down with all hands on the night of 7/8 January 1945 at Tamine Bay in northern Sutherland (see wreck report).
One of the dead was the 26 year old Chief Officer, William Paul Getty: son of William Frederick and Josephine Getty; husband of Erena Marjorie Getty. An annotation has just been made by his widow’s great-niece. I have moved this to this missive. Billy’s crewmates who lie beside him are:
ANDERSON, Chief Engineer Officer, ROBERT, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 59. Son of Robert Robertson Anderson, and of Mary Ann Robertson (nee Mathews); husband of Laura Anderson, of Liverpool. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 24.
BUCKLE, Assistant Cook, STANLEY HILTON, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 18. Son of Florence Buckle, of Stockton-on-Tees. Sec. E. Joint grave 20.
CAUCHI, Fireman and Trimmer, CARLO, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 42, of Malta, G.C. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 22.
FALZON, Fireman and Trimmer, CHARLES, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 43. Sister of Rafael Camilleri, of Paula, Malta, G.C. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 18.
FLETCHER, Able Seaman, JOHN, D/JX 443735. H.M.S. President III. Royal Navy. lost in S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). 8th January 1945. Age 20. Son of John and Sarah Fletcher, of St. Helens, Lancashire. Sec. E. Grave 26.
JAMES, Second Officer, IVOR MORGAN, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 51. Son of William Ingli James and Ellen Augusta James; husband of Alma Glencoe James, of Barry, Glamorgan. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 22.
KELLY, Sailor, JOSEPH STANLEY, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 24. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 22.
MERCIECA, Greaser, EMMANUELE, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 41, of Sliema, Malta, G.C. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 18.
MacARTHUR, Fourth Engineer Officer, ROBERT DAWSON, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 23. Son of Robert Dawson MacArthur and Dora MacArthur; husband of Margaret MacArthur, of Linthorpe, Middlesbrough. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 24.
PORTELLI, Donkeyman, C, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 47, of Quendri, Malta, G.C. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 18.
ROBINSON, Sailor, JOHN BERTRAM, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 22; husband of Phyllis Robinson of Middlesbrough. Sec. E. Joint grave 20. (According to the ships Crew Agreements, John Robinson left the ship at Middlesbrough on 2nd October 1944)
SKILLEN, Sailor, CHARLES, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 20. Son of David and Mary Skillen, of Middlesbrough. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 24.
ZAHRA, Fireman and Trimmer, PAUL, S.S. Ashbury (Glasgow). Merchant Navy. 8th January 1945. Age 52. Sister of Mary Zahra, of Malta, G.C. Sec. E. Coll. Grave 18.
My camera is out-of-action for the moment, so I cannot return to take a photograph of his actual grave, but I will do so if she wishes and would be happy to relay any information which may be in the local records.
I often joke that I dress like someone from an episode of Foyle’s War (one of the older characters), but nothing I have experienced comes close to the determination and sacrifice offered by the real individuals they are based upon. Billy, although he was younger than I am now, was in a position of considerable authority and responsibility. Tens of thousands more young men and women like him saw similar.
Furthermore, I am relatively unusual in that I have no close male relatives who fought in either of the cataclysmic conflicts of the first half of the 20th Century. Both my grandfathers were just too young for the Great War, and just too old for the Second World War; and they had only sisters.
Billy would have been born in the year the Great War ended, to a woman who may have seen male relatives killed. Her sense of relief would, just two decades later, been tempered by the opening of the second act and, as the end was in sight, the death of her son.
An early episode of Foyle’s War featured a UXB team, lead by an affirmed pacifist who had reasoned he could serve and assist his countryfolk without compromising his principles. I do not know what Billy’s views on armed-conflict were, but the Merchant Navy arguably provided a similar service; and was, proportionately, more dangerous than the armed-forces.
What a crushingly sad story.